Self Confidence and the Law of Success are intertwined. When you feel good about yourself and walk with self confidence, others respond to your self confidence in a positive way. There have been several points in my career when I hesitated to move forward because I did not have the self confidence. When I embody self-confidence, good things come my way.
How we feel about ourselves depends upon what lens we are looking through. Another way of saying it is how we are identified inside. If there is a scared, little part of me, then that part sees through a lens of doubt and fear. When I am centered in the adult competent and wise part of myself, then I have ample self confidence.
There is an exercise called “Who Am I.” Take a piece of paper and write down the left side, the numbers 1 through 20. Then one at a time, write an answer to the question “Who Am I?”
Who we are is often evoked by a reaction to what’s happening in our life. Those people who are self-confident have more anchors to the part of them that feels strength, upbeat, is optimistic, and knows how to problem-solve. Where ever we are identified, we set up a field of resonance. If you feel small and a bit of a victim, then you will attract circumstances and people who will see you as small and as a victim. When you are centered in the strength and possibilities of yourself, you attract people who see you that way.
Therefore Self Confidence is an important attribute to the Law of Success. It gets you into the Zone. (Click on any of the highlighted words to take you to another article related to self confidence.) You can coach yourself through doubt and fear into self confidence to utilize the Law of Success. You can help yourself return to self confidence by remembering your strengths. You can retrain your thoughts by applying the four cornerstones:
HAVE NO FAULT THOUGHTS
IDENTIFY ISSUES AS A SITUATION
THIS WILL PASS
THIS IS ONLY A SMALL PIECE OF THE PUZZLE
When we don’t feel self-confident, it is hard to look for a job, ask for a raise, or begin a new venture. We can enhance our self confidence. We can reach within to the spark of life and fan the embers. Take little steps. Choose to look for something you like about your self. Remember times when you did something well. The more time you spend changing your thoughts and visualizing your success, the more self confident you will become and then the Law of Success will operate smoothly with you.
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