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“Prosperity Success Secret to Create Your Day”

Sunday, June 29th, 2008

Prosperity Success Secret to Create Your Day is an excellent way to deepen your use of the law of success. In the last post we reviewed the prosperity success secret of 17 seconds. The process of using visualization to create your coming day is a powerful way to enhance your life, another prosperity success secret.

This prosperity success secret says; when you focus on anything for 17 seconds you begin aligning your energy with those of the Universe to heighten the effect of the law of success and law of attraction. In the law of success, each increment of 17 seconds that you add of focused attention increases alignment, creates an image, magnetizes the idea or visualization more, and sets into motion universal forces to bring what you want to you, whether that is success, prosperity, wellness, or material things. Why not use this law of success concept to create your day?

In this prosperity success secret, it is as though the Universe as part of the law of success says “George wants a new tractor. See that image in his visualization he is sending out! Let’s begin to create opportunities for him so that he can find that tractor at the price he wants.”

Each morning, you can help create your day by visualization. Imagine the kind of day you want. See things happening that you want that bring you success. If you combine prayer, visualization, and meditation together, it is a power way to amplify the use of the law of success in your life. In this prosperity success secret, you imagine the goals that you have for the day as being accomplished. Your visualization of your feelings of success when those goals are reached is important. You ask for signs from the universe that it is bringing you what you want. Dr. Joe Dispenza describes how to create your day in the transcription at What the Bleep.

If you use this visualization prosperity success secret, part of the law of success, you are far more likely to create your day in the way you wish, bringing more prosperity, more joy, more fulfillment, more health and little gifts from the universe.

Here’s to every day a day of success.

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“Prosperity Success Secret of 17 Seconds”

Tuesday, June 24th, 2008


Prosperity success secret of 17 seconds
has become a much used tool for reaching for quick results.

From the Abraham Hicks’ work, comes a process to amplify the law of success. For 17 seconds, pray, meditate, or visualize what you want to occur. This prosperity success secret process aligns yourself with the energy of Source or God, and with the positive event that you wish to have happen. If you can hold the idea for 17 seconds or for multiples of 17, you can enhance the energy with this prosperity success secret.

When you pray or use the 17 seconds prosperity success secret for someone else; I find that it is easier. I could much more easily concentrate 17 seconds on the success of my brother’s monthly sales campaign than on something I want. Abraham says to test the Universe. I do it regularly with the 17 seconds process prosperity success secret.

When I am using the prosperity success secret of 17 seconds (which can easily stretch out over a minute or so), I focus on my intent as I pray and meditate. When I use the prosperity success secret of 17 seconds, I actively visualize what events might happen when my desire is carried out. Focusing on my brother, I imagined having him call me and tell me how many orders had come in that week. I imagined seeing money deposited into his checkbook. I imagined his gratitude for his God given success and answered prayers. I see him packaging up his orders and getting them ready to be posted.

My daughter and I are traveling together, and we will do the prosperity success secret of 17 seconds together both as a meditation, a prayer, and visualization process. “Wherever two or more are gathered….” When we do the prosperity success secret of 17 seconds together, we almost always receive the results we envisioned.

We will do 17 seconds on getting a refreshing good night rest and waking up rejuvenated. We will do 17 seconds on having a safe and easy travel day. We did 17 seconds on selling our second automobile. We did 17 seconds prosperity success secret prayer for needed rain at my sister’s farm. We did a 17 seconds success secret pray for imminent rain to pass by until the roof was resealed while my niece’s porch was being built.

We have asked for $1000 more than we expected to come to us within one week. It showed up in less than 24 hours. Prayer, Meditation, and 17 seconds are all ways to tap into the Infinite Source of all that is. They are powerful prosperity success secrets. Here’s to your success using the prosperity secret of 17 seconds.

One powerful way to use the 17 second process is by creating a Vision Board.  Here are links to posts about how to create such a project.

Be Clear About What You Want: The Key to Vision Boards
Law of Success Vision Boards
New Year’s Resolutions and Vision Boards
Prosperity Secret of 17 Seconds
Intention
Setting Daily Intentions

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“Law of Success in spite of Worry and Fear”

Sunday, June 22nd, 2008

Law of Success in spite of Worry and Fear has been applied by successful people and by millionaires. The successful people of the world who use the law of success still feel fear and worry. Entrepreneurs who become successful millionaires still feel fear and worry. They just learn to coach themselves differently than others who succumb to fear and doubt. People who are wealthy use coaching self as part of their implementation of the law of success. They deal with worry and fear with several law of success tools. Coaching themselves with self talk and visualization through worry and fear enhances their self confidence.

They use self talk to remind themselves that they are usually successful. This helps them tap into past self confidence. They remind themselves that things always work out for them. They remember times in the past when they were worried, but persevered, and went onto success. Self Talk is an essential tool of people who are self confident. Self Confidence is an attribute of the successful, and the prosperous who utilize the law of success. Self Talk, a form of visualization, is an essential tool to eradicate fear and worry.

Another tool that successful, wealthy, and self confident people use is visualization. Visualization plays an important role in the law of success. These folks run visualizations in their minds seeing themselves carrying out their goals and being successful. Mental rehearsal is the term used in the study of peak performers, who do the exact same thing. Mental rehearsal enhances self confidence. Mental rehearsal enhances performance. Studies have shown that those people who do a mental rehearsal before they conduct a meeting, a telephone call, a project, come closer to the outcome they want than those who do not use visualization or mental rehearsal. Folks who use the law of success use visualization and self talk to combat worry and fear.

Visualization, self talk, mental rehearsals, self confidence and coaching self of past successes are all important facets in using the law of success and combating worry, doubt and fear. .

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“Look for Signs of the Law of Attraction”

Friday, June 20th, 2008


Look for signs of Law of Attraction
; signs that the Universe is tuned in to you. Sometimes the signs come through intuition. When I first started reading Ask and It is Given, which outlines the laws of attraction, even though one part of me knew it to be true, the critic in me did not. When the internal critic takes charge, consciousness contracts to just its point of view.

One way to stretch your vision is to look for signs that the universe is supporting you. I do that by saying something like a prayer. “Universe, I want to feel and see your support. Please send me signs today that will help me trust more. Please help me recognize the signs when they appear.” Another way of saying this is that I “set an intention.” Law of attraction will respond to you. Your intuition will lift its antennae.

My daughter and I are on a road trip at the moment. We had two cars and decided we wanted to travel in one car from Texas to Washington State. We stopped at my brother’s home in Oklahoma. We half heartedly put one car for sale. I just didn’t feel momentum to sell the black Toyota. I watched the efforts and how I felt inside, and mentioned them to my daughter. She felt the same. We were not trying to sell the Cutlass we were in because it had a lien against it and felt it might be harder to sell. My brother and sister in law told us they really thought we should try selling the Oldsmobile, because they didn’t have good feelings about us selling the Toyota. We all were listening to our intuition.

Two days later polished and clean, I parked the Oldsmobile at a major intersection in this very small town. I raised the price after the first test drive, so I could have room to dicker. In the next six hours I had two offers, and had five groups take the car for test drives. As I was getting in the car to go home, two cars drove up at the same time. Both wanted the vehicle. I received a full price offer on the spot, and met the buyer the next morning at her bank to finish the sale. I looked for the signs and they were clear. Law of Attraction brought the buyers within seven hours of my putting signs on the car. Intuition gave us guidance which we followed. A problem that had been perplexing us for five months was settled in one day when we asked for signs and followed the signs and our intuition.

It was easy. It was almost effortless. The Universe gave us its support and law of attraction brought buyer and seller together in a kind and supportive transaction. We were ecstatic. My daughter had reminded me to look for “signs.” Signs will be there for you too.

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To read another story about Look For Signs go to Meditation, Manifestation, and the Law of Success.

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“Tap Your Wisdom”

Tuesday, June 17th, 2008

Tap your wisdom and enhance your success, wealth, and well being. Successful people are very intuitive. They tap into inner wisdom. They are using the law of attraction.

In 1993, I wrote the following “letter” in a process I use to tap into my own wisdom. In a meditative state ,I write a problem (on the left of the page). On the right side of the page I write the words that come to me as I tap my wisdom. Fifteen years later, this wisdom is as timeless as it was when it was first written. It gives me chills to read. It is as if I heard this yesterday. This entry was written before I ever heard the term ‘law of attraction’.

To tap your wisdom, you need to listen to the still small voice inside. When you tap your own wisdom, you will also be aligning with the law of attraction. You will attract more well being, more joy, more success and more wealth.

In the future we will look more closely at the process of tapping your inner wisdom. When this was written in 1993, I was in the process of a divorce trying to navigate with some heart and integrity. When so heartsore and lonely, it was soothing and calming to read the words that came. The overwhelming feeling of being loved profoundly accompanied the words.

    Dear Soul:

    I just need to touch into you again and remember
    you are there. Please let me know what I need to
    know to do, what I need to do today.

    Thank you for your support, guidance and intuitive
    direction. It’s so helpful.

    Please give me guidance reference how not to be
    reactive to my children and their demands
    or emotions, or Tom’s.

        Beloved Child. You are always supported.

        You truly are the source
        of your own Wellbeing
        as you are rediscovering.


        No matter what the times
        or how chaotic the economy,
        your own ability to create
        will take care of your well being
        .

    It scares me.
    I’m on my own.

        No, you are just learning
        how to tap into Universal Flow.
        You can create well.
        You have been limited in the past
        by your own belief systems.

        This fall and during these last two years
        you have been experiencing the ripping away
        of those veils of consciousness that have
        cut you off from the flow.

        As you create your life now
        where there is more joy and more inner peace,
        you are rooting yourself more
        into the universal flow of life, substance and wellbeing.

        You can not help but create more
        of the same in your life – and
        sustain the flow of abundance through your life.

        Your joy in the flowers sends out beacons for more.
        Your capturing to paper
        the ideas that flow by
        creates room and more creativity.

        Your compassion draws to you more love.
        Your patience creates more space
        to enjoy your children, your house,
        your life, your presence in the now.

        All this creates flow, movement
        of a fulfilled sustenance vibration
        sounding through your being – and life
        wants to support you –
        wants to answer your response
        with a call for more.

    How do I hold onto this?

        Breathe into it.
        Breathe it in.
        Hold the purpose of
        letting it breathe you.
        Letting it be the fabric of your being.

        As you breathe through this flow –
        the limitations will be snapped off –
        brittle are they in the face of flow.

        So be not disturbed by the crackling as they go.

        We heard your call for a computer
        and sent you to one that fit your present needs.

        Do not fear the future.
        We are with you and delighted to serve with you.

        Your life will become more like this event.
        You will describe the want and need
        and it will follow the beacon to you.

        Your breakthrough with Tom came
        as a result of your becoming aware that
        you can be prosperous and
        it is not dependent upon him.

        He is on his own journey – on his own time.
        Your wellbeing does not depend on
        his timing or his consciousness.

        It depends on yours.

        As you relax into that
        you allow the Flow to provide.

        Be of good cheer, beloved being.
        You are doing your work.
        You are following your guidance.
        The rest will reveal itself.
        You are loved always.
        You are dear to our heart.
        You have accomplished much this life.

        And now you are finally being readied
        to do the work you wish.
        It will be OK.
        You will accomplish your goals.
        You are readied enough now to
        meet your own requirements.

I hope your own journey in success and prosperity is enhanced by contact with your wisdom. Here’s to tapping your own wisdom.

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“Self Confidence and Success”

Sunday, June 15th, 2008

Self Confidence and Success Happiness and Fulfillment are closely related. In earlier posts on Optimism, Positive Attitude and Positive Thinking, the focus was on optimism. Let’s look at self confidence and its relationship with success.

People who have self confidence have more success in their lives. People who have more success feel more self confident. It’s like the old chick and the egg question. Which comes first? It doesn’t matter. Increase your self confidence and success will follow. Increase success and self confidence will rise.

What does it mean to have self confidence? Most of us thing that means we have faith in our own personal judgment, abilities and power. The characteristics of person with self confidence are

    They are pleasant people to be around
    They are cheerful and have a positive outlook on life
    People of all kinds like them and becomes friends
    They feel fulfilled in their own life.

We can sense when someone doesn’t have self confidence. If they are trying to sell us something, we are not likely to buy, because we know they don’t believe in themselves, and so why should we? It’s hard to be successful when we lack self confidence.

We live in a culture where it has become normal to put ourselves down. When we do that we cut away at our own belief in ourselves. Even the most self confident person still wonders and worries, and questions their ability.

We’re putting the spotlight on Self Confidence because it is so vital to understand that Self Confidence is an important asset we each either have or can learn. We must become more confident, in order to nurture our own success. It is hard to have a positive attitude and think positive thoughts, when filled with self doubt.

It’s not only OK to be Self Confident; it is Absolutely Necessary to your Success. Tomorrow we will talk more about how to build self confidence.

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“Success, Optimism and Self Confidence”

Thursday, June 12th, 2008


Success, optimism and self confidence
are tied together tightly. Increase one of these three and the other two will also increase. A couple of days ago, while visiting my brother, my car wouldn’t start. I had just bought new batteries while visiting Texas. My first thought was “I must have left on a light inside the car while I was packing it the day before.” I didn’t even look under the hood. I just went looking for the jumper cables.

My brother opened the hood and said “Here’s your problem. The cable was loose on the battery post. The whole experience was great learning. I’m writing about learning optimism, and got to see first hand what my first thoughts were. My self confidence got boosted, and I felt successful as I reflected on my thought pattern.

I did realize it was only temporary. I could jump my car. I contained the issue to just those few minutes and future trips. While I assumed I contributed to this situation, I didn’t beat myself up with negative self talk. It was all over and done with in five minutes. That is very different than how it would have been five years ago. It was an opportunity to evaluate my own thoughts for optimism, self confidence and success.

How do you feel and what do you think when you someone says “well done?” What goes through your mind when you’ve bought a new couch, gotten a promotion, or when your beloved says “I love you?” Do you feel self confidence, optimism and success or do you wonder when the other shoe will drop.

People who are successful have self confidence. They believe in themselves. They have optimism. They talk to themselves positively.

In Optimists’ Success Secrets, we looked at the thinking patterns of optimism and pessimism. These thinking patterns were outlined by researchers who were working with school children to see if optimism is learnable. Trainers worked with children who were depressed, low self confidence and little success in school for twelve weeks.

They taught the children to not blame themselves, to realize that feelings are temporary, and to contain their thinking about one problem to just one small area of their life. The children learned success, optimism and self confidence. When tested two years later, these same children had retained what they learned and were able to problem solve because they had learned a different way to think using the four cornerstones to optimism, self confidence, and success..

If you change the way you talk to yourself (and to others) you can change how you feel and act. You will have more success, optimism and self confidence. So let‘s take an example. This morning you found that your car won’t start. What do you think?

If you immediately think you must have left on a light in the car and therefore are at fault, you lose problem-solving capabilities. What if the problem is a loose battery connection? Let’s look at a few thoughts to use instead that will help build self confidence, enhance optimism and success.

In the beginning you might have to re route old thinking by making statements around the three things that optimists do. People who have optimism, success and self confidence talk to themselves that:

    1. The problem is outside of self. This is a situation.
    2. It is temporary. It does not predict the future.
    3. The problem does not affect every part of my life.

Self talk (what you think to yourself) has a huge impact on your optimism and self confidence. For more optimism, you could successfully think:

    “This is a situation. It is outside me.”
    “My car is not starting NOW. This is not permanent. It is temporary”
    “My whole life does not revolve around my car starting now.”
    “I probably am not going to lose my job because my car isn’t starting.
    “Now I can begin to figure out what to do next.”

A pessimistic pattern weakens your self confidence and undermines optimism and success. When you are not thinking the thought patterns of pessimists, you have more mind capacity to use. You are not focused inside on who is at fault or asking why this always happens. This frees up energy to figure out what to do. You might be able to think something like:

    “I can focus on fixing the problem.
    “I wonder what’s causing this car not to start.
    “Who could help me this morning?”
    “What do I need to do about getting to work?
    “Who can I call at work to let them know I might be late?

To review, success optimism and self confidence are intertwined. The more optimism you generate, the more self confidence you feel. The more self confidence you have, the more success you will have. For quotes on positive attitude go here.

Here are THE FOUR CORNERSTONES of the thought patterns for optimism, self confidence and success.


HAVE NO FAULT THOUGHTS

If your thoughts are consumed with who is at fault – either yourself or someone else, your creativeness is gobbled up with feelings that result from fault finding. When you reframe the negative event as “just a situation that is temporary” your mind is freed up to look for solutions. If you constantly are thinking that it is your fault, it undermines your self confidence. If you look for someone else who is at fault, again your mind is tied up by emotions that will not support optimism, self confidence and therefore success.

From a law of attraction perspective, if you focus on the negative things, you draw more negative things to yourself. Once I get on a roll of a series of what I see as negative thoughts, I can guarantee that perhaps even within the hour, more negative events will occur. It happens very quickly. I laugh at it now and try to see how soon I can switch out of those thoughts, because I don’t want any more “car issues” for example. Since I prefer “positive events; the law of attraction is great motivation to have better self confidence, more optimism, and reap success.

IDENTIFY IT AS A SITUATION. In work environments it is much more helpful to look for a problem with the system, than look for the problem with a person. Your employees will be far more productive, more self confidence and be more successful, if you are looking at the issues, not the people. You’ll feel better too. It just off loads some of the emotions that gunk up our thinking works.


THIS WILL PASS. IT IS TEMPORARY
. This situation does not predict the future. To have optimism, success, and self confidence, I need to contain the problem to now.


THIS IS ONLY A SMALL PIECE OF THE PUZZLE.
Any issue is only a small slice of the whole pie. To have optimism, success, and self confidence, I need to contain the problem to a small area of my life.

Write these four cornerstones of optimism, self confidence and success thinking on a 3 x 5 card and carry it with you. When an event is happening in your life and it doesn’t feel good, remind yourself:

    HAVE NO FAULT THOUGHTS
    IDENTIFY IT AS A SITUATION
    THIS WILL PASS
    THIS IS ONLY A SMALL PIECE OF THE PUZZLE

This will give you enough perspective to reframe your thoughts. If you can do this for just thirty days, you will find you have more optimism, self confidence and success.

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“The Secret To Optimism, Success, Positive Attitude and Being Happy”

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

The Secret to Optimism is You and Your Choice.

After years of reading and research, prayer and masterminding, owning businesses and working for someone else, I came to the conclusion that to really become extravagantly successful, I needed to learn to think differently; the secret to being happy, having optimism, and being successful.

Ask and It Is Given began another series of deep changes in my life. It was time, I thought. What did I have to lose? Might as well try thinking with optimism. A positive attitude and being happy would be the worst result. So I gave myself a time frame of one month, and then one year to try thinking with optimism and a positive attitude. Wonders! I became a happy person overnight. After constantly being accused of only looking at the hole instead of the dough-nut, this was simply a marvelous way to live. I had stumbled upon the Secret of Optimism. I only had to choose what I thought.

    Setting Intent is the first step in the secret of optimism and creating a happy, successful life with positive attitude.

    Deliberation about the Intent is also a part of the steps in the secret of optimism; becoming prosperous successful and happy. In this case I had deliberated for years of the pros and cons of developing the practice of thinking different. Being wealthy, successful, and deliriously happy attracted me. I could really commit to this process of thinking with optimism to create a positive attitude.

    Commitment to that Intent is the third step in the secret of optimism and creating a positive attitude and a happy successful life.


    Becoming Aware
    of my thoughts (Recognize them) is the next logical step in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude, and happiness. Years of conscious building had helped. It is a little awkward and painful to watch one’s thoughts each minute and each hour. So much habit. So much focus on the negative. Uggh.

    Acceptance of what you think without judgment is an imperative part in the in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy. I developed ways to say, “Oh yes, there’s my cynic (judge) raising its head again. Well of course it would feel that way.”

    Have a Happy Thought Stockpile. Choose a couple of events, dreams or wishes that you can think about in detail that make you feel good. When you are thinking a stream of negative thoughts, you just can’t stop thinking those same thoughts, so you must change your focus to something pleasant. A list of happy thoughts is a magical tool in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

    Shift your attention to something that fills you with joy and happiness; the next stage in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy. I would practice on my way to work by looking at the world around me and finding something to be amazed at. Later I practiced imagining and detailing my favorite retirement dream of painting and writing. I always felt better. Finding things to be grateful for, was another way.

    Choose the positive thought. The mind can be tricky. You can’t stop thinking negatively, worrying, or being in fear. But you can choose to turn your focus to something else. When you successfully shift your focus, make sure you appreciate yourself (later) for having chosen well. Appreciation of your success will serve in implementing the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

    Savor the happy well being that comes from practicing the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy. I didn’t have much practice in savoring. It is so delicious to savor. It’s like being the dog riding with his head out the car window.


    Repeat the Process time and again
    . Whenever you find yourself thinking another negative thought, reach for a better feeling thought from your Happy Stockpile. Repeating is a necessary tool in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.


    Practice this process for 30 days
    and your will have made a habit of using the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

Here is more information about How to Become an Optimist.

Tomorrow, we will look at some specific thoughts to interrupt so you can better use the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

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“OPTIMISTS’ SUCCESS SECRETS”

Monday, June 09th, 2008

Optimists’ success secrets are necessary for success. You have just been given a salary increase. You have found a great apartment. Your house sold. What do you say to yourself and others? Your car won’t start. Your toilet breaks. What kind of story do you tell when you have a ‘string of bad luck.” Are you an optimist or a pessimist? Do you have the success secrets of optimist?

What you think, how you think and what you say are fundamental success secrets. Optimists have proven to be more productive and successful. Pessimists prove their world view time after time. Pessimists are less healthy, more stressed, achieve less, and live shorter lives than optimists. You can learn optimism – which is more optimal than pessimism. Optimism, positive attitudes and positive thinking can be learned success secrets.

How do you explain the positive and negative things that happen in your life? When you get a promotion or an increase in sales, what do you say to yourself and others? It is possible to identify optimism ways of thinking and distinguish them from pessimism thought patterns. A success secret is learning the key difference between optimism and pessimism.

How you think about and explain to yourself and others the positive and negative events in your life is an important success secret. It determines whether you are an optimist or a pessimist. Let’s look at the difference between optimists and pessimists.

Viewing Problems: Optimists’ Success Secrets

Optimists think about their problems in a specific way.

    Optimists believe their problems are not permanent and have nothing to do with the future
    Optimists believe their problems are from outside themselves (not their fault)
    Optimists believe their problems will affect only a small part of their world.

The Success Secret that Optimists have is how they think about themselves. They believe the problems are not caused by them; that this is temporary; and this problem does not affect every part of their life.

Pessimists think about their problems absolutely differently.

    Pessimists believe their problems are permanent and will be there in the future.
    Pessimists believe their problems are their fault.
    Pessimists believe their problems will affect most every part of their day to day life.

The impaired success secret Pessimists have is how they think about themselves. They see themselves at fault, believing that this will continue to be the way things are, and this state is affecting everything in their life.

Positive Events: Optimist Success Secrets

Optimists look at positive events in a certain way.

    Optimists believe positive events like promotions happen because of themselves and what they do and what they contribute.
    Optimists believe the positive events are a sign that more positive things will come.
    Optimist look forward to more positive things to come because they believe what they do contributes to a positive result. (They believe they have some control on the outcome).

The success secrets of optimists are they can see their strengths, know that those strengths and talents contribute to positive outcomes.


Pessimists look at positive events in a certain way
.

    Pessimists believe that positive things that happen to them are a lucky or freak accident.
    Pessimists believe that positive things that happen to them are flukes, and probably won’t happen to them again. (Expectation)
    Pessimists believe that positive things that happen are outside their control.

Pessimists are success impaired. Pessimists believe nothing they did created a positive result ((losing access to the success secret).

The success secrets of optimism is that optimist see a positive cause and effect between what they do and positive results. They actively look for what created the success.

Another success secret is Belief in Self. Positive events confirm an optimist’s belief in themselves. They believe good things will happen now and in the future. Positive events confirm an optimist’s belief in life.

Pessimists believe that positive things are just lucky, that nothing they did helped create the positive event now, and therefore they don’t expect more good things now or in the future (losing access to the success secret).

Impaired success of pessimists is that they believe they always cause bad things to happen (losing access to the success secret).

Negative Events: Optimist Success Secrets

When the toilet breaks or the car won’t start; Optimists look at positive events very differently than pessimists.

    Optimists believe negative events that happen are a fluke and are not a result of what they did. They don’t believe negative events will affect all areas of their life. They contain their thoughts about what happened. (They keep their thoughts ‘local’ or ‘specific’ to this particular event),
    Optimists believe the negative events are not their fault.
    Optimists believe that negative events have nothing to do with their future.

Optimism success secrets are that optimists don’t cast blame on themselves or others. A person is not “the cause.”

Pessimists look at negative events in ways that hurts themselves. When the toilet breaks, the car won’t start, or they get passed over for a promotion, their thoughts are diametrically opposed to optimist ways of thinking.

    Pessimists believe negative events are caused by them.
    Pessimists believe because the negative events or mistakes are their fault that more mistakes will follow in the future.
    Pessimists believe that more negative events and mistakes will happen in all areas of their life because they cause them. They globalize one event to their entire life. Therapists call this globalized thinking. The toilet broke and the car battery died because “I just do stupid things”. I must have leaned too much on the toilet top. I must have left some light on in the car that caused the battery to die.

Pessimists are Success-Impaired. They don’t have access to success secrets.

Another Optimist’s Success Secret is that optimists let negative events roll off themselves. They contain thoughts about this negative event to now and limit its effect to just a small area of their life. The toilet breaking is not going to affect their marriage.

Success-Impaired Pessimists believe they are wrong (losing access to the success secret). They believe they will always make more mistakes. They globalize being wrong, to now and to the future, and to all areas of their lives. They may even think that something is wrong with them.

This is what the researchers have been able to define. I believe that optimists think in terms of what I DO. Pessimists make it about WHO I AM.

Optimist’s success secret is that they tell a positive story to themselves and to others about the things that happen in their lives.

Pessimists impair their success (losing access to the success secret) by telling a negative story to themselves and to others. Often pessimists sound like victims. The universe and the world along with themselves have conspired to serve up awful life happenings.

Optimists have formula; a success secret. Here are seven Success Secrets.


SUCCESS SECRETS OF OPTIMISTS

    Optimist Success Secret 1: Optimists see problems as temporary not permanent. Things will continue to change.

    Optimist Success Secret 2: Optimists contain problems. Problems do not color their whole life when they happen (kept contained to and only affect a small area of their life).

    Optimist Success Secret 3: Optimists look at problems as just a challenge to solve. They are caused by external situations not by a person.

    Optimist Success Secret 4. Optimists actively look to see what attributes in themselves contributed to a positive outcome (ex. they got their job promotion was because they are so persistent and methodical). They actively look for their strengths.

    Optimist Success Secret 5: Optimists actively look for what situations cause the problem and don’t see a person as the cause.

    Optimist Success Secret 6: Optimists tell themselves positive stories about themselves (self talk). Optimists tell positive stories to others about what is happening in their lives.

    Optimist Success Secret 7: Optimists look forward to success in the future. Positive events are signs that more success is on its way. Therefore they expect more success.

Some aspects of ourselves have a negative outlook. Some aspects of ourselves have a positive outlook. See UnKnown Secret of You . The Orchestra of You reviews different parts of self.

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“OPTIMISM, POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND POSITIVE THINKING”

Saturday, June 07th, 2008

Optimism, positive attitudes and positive thinking are fundamental to the laws of Success. My ex-husband used to tell me that I always looked at the doughnut and not the hole. Oops. I made a Freudian slip. He always said that I looked at the hole and not the doughnut. That I reversed it as I wrote tells me how much I have changed. That’s exciting. Today, let’s look at the benefits of optimism and the laws of success.

Can Optimism, positive thinking, and positive attitude be learned? From my own experience, and my own demonstration in the first paragraph; the answer is YES. It can be learned. It is true that optimism can be predisposed; a fancy way of saying it is inherited. Research scientists are reporting that it can be taught and learned by children who are at high risk (another fancy way of saying that the children are probably depressed, unhappy and pessimistic).

OPTIMISM, POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND POSITIVE THINKING RESEARCH

It helps me to have positive thinking and optimism and a positive attitude, but I really feel convinced and happy when what I believe and feel are proven by research. I always believed I could be happy and successful and prosperous, but I was lit by fire when I read The Millionaire Mind and found that millionaires who are very successful had the same fears, doubts and concerns that I have. They too have to deal with criticism and maintaining persistence in the face of failure – keep on keeping on. These facts verified that I’m not so different. If they can do it, I can do it. You can do it.

Shortly after I read about the Laws of Attraction, I was sharing it with someone I thought was very positive. She looked at me with disdain and said “Is that all it is – positive thinking?” Obviously optimism, positive thinking and positive attitude have taken a bad rap.

So I am here to tell you that optimism, positive thinking and a positive attitude can extend your life span significantly. It has been proven.

Optimism creates people who are happy, successful, and healthy. Research of 99 Harvard graduates over a 35 year period indicates that graduates who had optimism and positive thinking and positive attitudes were significantly healthier and longer lived than pessimists.

Persistence is a by product of Optimism, positive attitude and positive thinking. People who are optimistic, have a positive attitude, and think positive don’t give up as easily as pessimists. To actively use the laws of success, it is important to keep on regardless.

Children in one study and adults in another study who were given optimism training learned how to think in a positive manner. Even years after the training, they could solve problems better. They had better emotional health as a result of optimism, positive attitude and positive thinking than pessimists.

Greater Achievement was accomplished by both individual players and sport teams who had optimism, positive attitude and positive thinking; than those who were pessimistic.

Optimism, positive thinking and positive attitudes help people believe in themselves and have less stress. Millionaires believe in themselves. It is easier to cooperate with the laws of success when you believe in yourself.

OPTIMISM, POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND POSITIVE THINKING BENEFITS

Optimism, positive thinking and a positive attitude delivers the benefits of a longer life span, greater health, persistence, better achievement, less stress, and the belief in self. Why would anyone want to not have optimism, positive thinking, and a positive attitude? IT CAN ONLY HELP YOU SUCCEED AND PROSPER which will beget more optimism, positive thinking and a positive attitude which CAN ONLY HELP YOU PROSPER.

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