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What Change Are You Truly Hungry For?

Monday, February 11th, 2019

A dear friend got very intrigued about opening a frozen yogurt shop in her small town. She did the research, got her husband on board, looked for locations, and choked just before she made the complete investment in this new business, and turned to her tried and true connection, her animal friends. Her husband dreams of being a semi-truck driver because he wants the freedom from supporting the family financially. He wants to get on the road and travel. Be away from bosses, and work obligations. Neither has reached the point where they are so hungry for happiness and success that they have found a way to change.

Two of my neighbors really want to be svelte and gorgeous. They struggle with their weight and their diet. One neighbor has been in a relationship that has been on again, off again during the whole time I known her. She describes that relationship as both very supportive and very abusive. She too threw herself into the relationship with her wonderful dog, until that dog passed away. Her new dog has challenged her to the max.

My son broke up with his girlfriend in December, and she immediately started dating a male friend with whom she had been dancing in a play. In January, he got laid off by the tech company in which he had invested 60 – 80 hours weeks. He was so tired and discouraged that he needed nine months to recover physically, before he could look for a new job and a new relationship. During that time, he was able to get clear. He wanted to move from the very small town in Vermont, be in a larger place where he would have opportunities to meet new friends and new work opportunities and not see his ex-girlfriends every time he went downtown.

He was exceedingly hungry for change. It came out of the adversity of his life. It made him hungry for happiness. Hungry for a different kind of success.

It took time. He took the time to focus on his food, and lose weight. He began to change his image. Imagine a 30-something male taking time to develop a hairstyle, skin regimens, and go through his wardrobe to really look his best. It was so fun to watch. And grueling for him. There was no guarantee any of it would pay off during his nine-months of not knowing what he would do next.

He now lives in Manhattan, across the street from where he works, on a less trafficked street where there is not as much noise. That’s important because he is a one of those people who has sleep issues. He’s got a job that he got easily. It came out of his hunger for change, and taking inspired actions. His hunger for success that wouldn’t hurt him and his body propelled him into living in a new way, and it has been amazing to watch.

I too am very hungry for change. I got very sick during the last five months. Lost my autonomy. My daughter had to come live with me, drive me everywhere, do grocery shopping, cook for me, do my laundry. And that is hard on our relationship. It scared me deeply. My huge hunger for my autonomy has propelled me to take longer and longer walks to build up my strength, and climb stairs. It has made me hungry to fix my own meals in the morning, which might be gluten free toast and eggs. It has made me hungry to really change my life core deep pattern that I have been carrying.

I was reading my September journal recently, and was blown away to see an entry where I was just so angry with so many things, and my guidance (to whom I was writing) said “well, you may just need to really experience being a victim, to really get this.” What?

My coach who has been working with me to help overcome life-long patterns and beliefs helped me identify that my core life pattern has been based on being a victim to circumstances, especially circumstances that I was born into. Circumstances that create survival and contracting. In January, my coach was asking me a really hard question. “Why are you not being able to drop this victim identification? You have cleaned up so many patterns, what is it that is still stuck?”

Grappling with that question really helped me understand how I got into this current health situation. I am a super-sensitive person. That gives me some wonderful strengths. It also makes me vulnerable to what other people think of me. Because of this I have had some really challenging times doing what is in my own best interests, and instead try to do what is expected of me. Here where I live, and with my pet-sitting clients that became particularly hard in October, when a client wanted to leave her brain-damaged husband in my care. I was able to state my concerns, but she left without getting them resolved. The result was that I needed to intervene with his family and then I got ill as a result. I was supersensitive, tried to be too nice, and didn’t take care of myself. So I created a circumstance where I got to live out once again being a victim to circumstance and learned the huge consequence to my health.

Now; from a much bigger (dragon’s eye view) perspective; I see that I got myself into a situation where I really became hungry enough to burst out of this major life identification, and I chose to get ill so that I could build the hunger deep enough to propel me past the blocks, past the reluctance to change that status quo, past all the gobbledygook that my small self throws out, and past all the resistance that would come up when I tried to change this core life issue.

Simultaneously that Universe gave me the opportunity to understand better how I got into this life-long pattern of being on the Victim, Perpetrator, Rescuer platform, where most of humanity hangs out. And how this Highly Sensitive Person Syndrome (surviving when the world overwhelms you) and my Active Alert Temperament are all related and have set up my body for this autoimmune condition I have been experiencing once again. I wrote a blog entry in 2016 called Resolve where I publicly resolve to change this core pattern and look at these temperament characteristics. That was just as I was beginning work with my coach. Finding that blog entry is another sign. Looking for Signs from the Universe is so important. Thank heavens I can finally have some larger perspective.

Because I was so hungry and driven to be able to answer my coach’s questions, I serendipitously ran across the book “The Deepest Well: Healing The Long-Term Effects of Childhood Adversity.” I needed to understand why I was having so much trouble. I like knowing. That birthed my last Post called Success and Acute Childhood Adversity.”

Knowing this research about Acute Childhood Trauma is a huge missing piece about the human condition and about my human and body condition. In the reviews on Amazon, there were a number of people who couldn’t read or listen to the book because the research did not make them hopeful, nor was there a lot of practical guidance about coping. But in the one of the five star reviews, writer and counselor Lucille Zimmerman who has done her own five years of research with this group wrote “Trauma can be the springboard that catapults people into higher and better ways of functioning than before. In spite of the pain and suffering, the trauma actually ends up giving some people an advantage in life.”

It actually can give you the huge hunger to change your life. When you are hungry to change, you can go past the barriers of self-doubt, and old ways of seeing and believing. It can give you the huge motivation to go beyond your deepest resistance.

It took me three years to get hungry enough to change my diet in a major way. I dropped sugar and alcohol, and other inflammation producing foods like dairy. And it has been pretty easy to stay on that plan, because the hunger for health and wellness was way bigger than the value of what I would get by having a piece of strawberry shortcake.

What is it that you are really hungry for? Hunger gives you a Burning Desire. Hunger gives you a Burning Goal. Your own largest self is calling you. It’s telling you what you are ready to do next. Looking for success for most of us is really looking for ways to be happy, and ways to step into our strengths and our best and largest ways of contributing. I am here to tell you that your own guidance and intuition is always there supporting you to find your way into your larger growth.

Sometimes we can’t hear the message, because our vision of ourselves has shrunk. And that might be a reason to reach out to someone like a coach who can hold the larger vision of you, help you see the bigger picture, and help you translate your hunger into an inspired action plan. We’ll talk about that in an upcoming blog. For today, you can ask the question of yourself, what is it that I am really hungry for?

Am I hungry for hope, am I hungry for the job of my dreams, and am I hungry for connection to deal with this immense loneliness that I feel inside? Am I hungry to have financial success because I am drowning in debt? Am I hungry to have the freedom to live my life the way I want, and it’s hard to be a parent, or have a partner or a family that I am having to support? Am I hungry to be healthy because I have chronic conditions like diabetes, asthma, chronic fatigue syndrome, heart conditions or something that is really debilitating my ability to enjoy my life? Am I hungry to express my creativity through art, painting, singing, sculpture, dancing, pottery, or some other way such as writing?

We are in times of change. Our hunger can tell us the direction of the change we are moving in. It can give us the powerful intention and motivation to change and be a success.

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LIFE IS GOOD

Saturday, June 23rd, 2018

 

If there has been a focus in this blog during the last ten years, it has been “How can I live my life sublimely, in my greatest self, aligned and tuned in?  That is what I have concluded from my life experience. To be happy, to be full of well-being, to act in the world in an inspired way, to be successful, whole, healthy and wise; then there was a state of being that I aspired to.  I have spent an entire life trying to find the way to move out of my painful patterns of reaction, into a mode where I choose who I am, rather than be the Reaction to my Outward Environment.

Last night I remembered a beautiful moment in my life when that fullness of being, that connection with Life happened and it was magical.  I was 26 or so, attending a Sid Simon workshop on Values Clarification (which was really a personal growth workshop – but for me, it was spiritual). We continually affirmed each other.  We were constantly in pairs, looking into each other’s eyes for 2 minutes, answering the question that Sid asked us to speak about, and then with loving humor, we would feed back to that person something we absolutely adored about them (just from that 2 minute interaction).  It was profound for the young woman I was who was so starved for positive feedback.

On the last night (a Thursday) we had a talent show which lasted until 3:00 am. At 4:00 am we all loaded into cars and drove out to Miami Beach to watch the sun rise.

I think the sun rose for the  majestic first in my life metaphorically.  As I sat on my meditation bench, full from the experience with 40 – 50 people appreciating each other, I watched the sky lighten.  I was so full.  My heart soared. My spirit was peaceful.  As the sun began to sliver above the horizon, my soul began to sing. I moved into the most profound connection that I have ever experienced.  My cells sang with exuberant joy.  I was completely a part of all that is. I was the sky, I was the moon, I was the water, I was the sand. I was the wave, I was the ginormous awareness bigger than a personal self could ever be.  I wept with joy. I was called to celebrate this incredible beautiful experience we call life by dancing with arms raised into the water.

That time felt endless. There was no time. There was no space, there was only joyous communion.

There is so much more to this story.  Miraculous things happened which I will save for another time.

Today, I am sitting in a study, writing, looking out onto the beautiful world, just having returned from an incredible event in Nanaimo Canada called The Science and Spirituality Conference.  From Wednesday June 13 till Wednesday June 20, I travelled and soaked up the human wisdom that some people I greatly admire have generated from their life’s work; Gregg Braden, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Lynne McTaggart, Dr. Bruce Lipton, and Lee Carroll.  I feel today as I felt that gorgeous Friday morning in Miami. Truly blissful, connected to Oneness.

Together 1500 people along with the staff and the presenters, created a field of connection and possibility that has allowed me to feel like dancing with joy, as I did in the Atlantic waters. Now some 40 years+ I am bathing in the waters of my soul while living next to and visiting the waters of the Pacific.

I have aspired to a State of Being where my personal self is aligned with my Source Self.  I am feeling as though I have asked and asked and asked, and finally the universe has given me far more than I ever could have anticipated.

The three months leading up to the conference helped me anchor my intention.  It also allowed some deep processes that cleared the obstructions that kept me mired in reaction.  Unpleasant they were, but I embrace them so excitedly because they freed me to go to the conference free of expectation, free of trying to get what I needed, free from trying to take what I wanted out of desperation, and move to a state of appreciation of myself for going, appreciation for the staff for creating this miraculous event, and the appreciation of and wonder of that many people coming together of like mind.

I feel as though I have circled again into that state of bliss and oneness that led to miracles.  But the state of Being In Oneness is so compelling, that I am so happy to just be here in this moment, in this time, still connected to that incredible field of Quantum Possibility, the Divine, the Matrix, Source, none of which really names even closely what the experience is.

How powerful.  We are living in such wonderful times.  They can be uncomfortable, but such a huge state of shift is happening.  And we are a part of it. LIFE IS GOOD!

What an amazing journey life is!  I feel like I have spent all my life coming to this point in the here in now, where I finally can be the me that I came here to be.  I stand on the cusp of a fascinating birthday – one which I have faced in the past with quite a bit of trepidation.

Now, I am so excited to see what the next 30 or 40 years brings.  Thank you for joining this journey with me.

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Tuning in or Focusing

Saturday, November 25th, 2017

I’m better! How wonderful! I’m happy!! I’ve focused on a food plan for more than a year that has significantly reduced inflammation in my body( a version of the paleo plan). My colon is better. My lungs are much better.

Many, including my GI doctor, thought I was in major suffering because of my diet. It was not suffering. I had been so sick, that nothing was more important than feeling better again. No bowl of ice cream was tempting when I knew that my colon and my physical energy would take over a week to get back to normal.

It was a very simple choice to me. Do I go with a momentary pleasure for sugar, or do I have a whole week of feeling good? No doubt on that choice. I’ll take feeling good most of the time. I experimented from time to time, and every time, I would conclude: Nope, not worth feeling so sluggish that I can barely move for a week.

So that process I have gone through with my health came out of a deep desire to get well. Getting well was way more important than any thing else. Took being in bed for months to be willing to let go sugar in everything.

Took 3 years to make that decision. Once made, however, I had a focus that was unshakeable. The decisions out of that focus were easy. I also had help. The Universe provided a friend who was willing to take me under her wing and show me how to cook on the plan, how to not feel deprived of desserts, and alternative cooking compounds that would support my diet. Way wonderful. I was so grateful.

While I was focusing on getting well, I forgot about being happy. Things got heavy and ponderous. My body was in survival, and I knew it.

Finally, now, I am well enough that I want to recover feeling good emotionally most of the time. I want to hold the stability of well being no matter what is happening in the world, no matter how I feel, no matter how I respond to other people.

My success with my health gives me much confidence that I can begin to build a stable center inside of good feeling thoughts, so that I can tune into well-being and happiness.

It takes as much focus and commitment as the food plan did. Every morning now, I get up and do something that helps me tune into better feelings and thoughts. It’s like looking through a whole new pair of eyes. I will write a few entries on what I am doing, because it is pretty easy; once I made the decision that I was deeply committed to feeling emotionally well. Good to talk with you again. Be well.

Here’s a link to a you tube video I made about Centering, that you might enjoy. Identification Exercise

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Resolve

Monday, September 19th, 2016

This has been a year of strong transitional movement. I know a lot of people who are challenged. As these waves of energy cascade, I have had strong reactions and sometimes felt at the mercy of forces beyond my control. Yet there are huge signs of transformation.

The Kiln

This has been a wild year, painful and intense, deeply fatiguing, and finally freeing. I have been terrified that 3 people I hold dear would die. And my sweet 33 year old Melissa did die. The brother to whom I am closest in age has had a heart that has been in flutter for over 16 months. He came to visit in June, and I was grateful to see him one more time.

My own health has been compromised as my two autoimmune disorders have flared and I can’t get them settled down.

Out of all the heat in the kiln of life, I find myself resolving to find a yet new way to live. While I have been saying that my health has been a top priority this last year, my actions have been to keep pushing me just a little further, to keep keeping on because I said I would do it, or I felt compelled to get that task done. I wasn’t always the driver of my own bus (one of my inner family or emotions was- click for more info). Sometimes impatience, and a need to get something accomplished drove my bus, not my more wise patient, compassionate self.

Have you noticed there are lots of people who are being challenged? When in a time where we have no control of the outside forces we can feel hopeless. Not so in charge of my inside forces these past months, it has been a time for me to stop.

The Fire

A sequence of circumstances brought me to a standstill. It took first intense anger to propel me to an inner place where I could allow the intense anger to morph into resolve. I was preparing for a colonoscopy (which I have done many times). They are not pleasant, but I had my tried and true method to get through the preparation. This time it didn’t work. This time my body had a violent reaction to the 12 hours forced cleansing. As I began recovering, I hit pure fury at the inhumane process.

But it turns out that what was inhumane, was my continual pushing my body to perform physical tasks far beyond its capability. So the fury I felt at the medical profession was a mirror to the fury that my body felt to being forced to be a slave to my will. In my imagination, my body was acting like a dog on a leash that finally laid down and would not walk any further because it had no more energy to give.

So no matter my outside commitments or my desires to do those things, I have had to stop.

Immediate Feedback

My body has such a state of depletion that it cannot restore itself. So it is giving me signals. If this doesn’t work for me, then I bleed. If I eat the wrong food, I bleed. If I get stressed, I bleed, if I get over-tired, I bleed. In real time, within the hour, my body gives me red feedback.

When I am this depleted, I am not really giving to others, when I do something that I said I would do. I don’t have the cushion of finess when I talk. I have been at a number of committee meeting, and as I would say my truth, it shaved off their skin as my words whistled by because what I saw and said was delivered with such intensity. That’s not a give to anyone.

So I am having to say no sometimes to things I think would give to me. I had to say no to going to a 4 day training that was two states away. Too much travel and too intense a schedule, my body could not do it. Last night at the last minute, I chose not to go to Chorus practice (I love singing) because I was too tired. When I signed up for chorus this season, I told myself I would just go when I felt really good, and wouldn’t go when I don’t, and if that means I don’t sing in the final concerts, then that’s what it means.

Phoenix Rising

But there is real transformation at work in this time for me. Because I am forced with instant feedback to see what helps and what does not help, I am able to make life changing choices.

I resolved changing the things I can. I resolve to eat on an Autoimmune Food Protocol. Some people put their diseases into remission and even heal themselves. I have the will power and the resolution to stay on that plan.

Eliminating stress is another thing I can change. How? I’m taking a sabbatical from things that create stress for me. I’m re-reading a book called “How We Choose to Be Happy – The 9 choices of Extremely Happy People-their secrets, their stories.” This is a way that “truly happy people make conscious decisions about how they will confront life’s challenges. In the face of sometimes overwhelming circumstances, they create happiness by making the same nine internally driven choices.”

Summary

So I have told you about my horrible, no good awful year 🙂 (like Alexander’s No good, horrible awful day – a delightful children’s book).

I’ve told you a basic response that came out of the pain, fatigue, and feeling powerlessness.

Fury came. Fury delivered the emotional energy that I could morph into resolve.

With it the decision arrived that I will be victim no more.

And a resolve so bone deep that it seared out all the hopelessness and despair and left complete resolve that I will live my life differently no matter what the circumstances. Now that is resolution I want you to know. And although my diseases are still active, I am happy. Bone Deep happy. And I intend to stay that way no matter what.

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Life Flame and the Law of Success

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What Two Ingredients Put you into Flow?

Transformation (includes The Gifts of Adversity)

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What Two Ingredients Put You Into Flow?

Tuesday, February 10th, 2015

These last three months, I have not been in Flow. Before I tell you about the two special ingredients of Flow, which I am so glad I remembered I want to tell you my journey.

My consciousness has been getting more alert and I feel I can see more. Some truly spectacular things have been happening for me, and yet it has been a very jerky ride. One day things are great. The next day, or moment, things are upside down again.

Usually, when I am in the flow, my life feels magical. Reality seems to actually become pliable. This life these last three months? Not so much. Yet I have made huge strides in clarity, self-confidence, boundaries, speaking my truth, and the most wonderful thing is that I have dropped a huge amount of reactivity. I am more authentic, powerful, and straightforward. And with this empowerment a few darker areas of my consciousness came to light.

These High Octane Times
Here’s what I’m thinking. We are in times when things are shifting big time. If you can stay tuned in, tapped in, turned on to life, your awareness will expand and you see multiple dimensions of possibility.

But making this shift is a challenge. Whatever is not alive and awake comes up and grabs you and says “Wake up!” It is not fun getting those wake up calls. But the potential is phenomenal and the energy is here for us to transform exponentially. The energy will propel us forward powerfully. Of course when we hit a snag, it feels like running into a tree when we have been going 100 miles an hour.

For a while in this high octane energy field, I got lost in some depression, some nostalgia during the holidays, and having poor health for at two months.

So what did I do? I read, relaxed, tried to get well, and worked my emotional process. I got somewhat lost in the feelings, though I trusted the process and knew it would lead me forward.

Remembering at Last
This morning I was inspired to relisten to a seven minute video Vishen Lahkiani, CEO of a personal growth company called MindValley. He reminded me of those essential ingredients to the state of flow and four states of mind in his video Flow, The Paradox of Intention and Four States of Mind. I thought you might enjoy his perspective.

Four States of Mind
Vishen identifies these four states of those people who are business owners and follow the Law of Attraction. Vishen has developed this concept over a couple of years and says the Flow is the 4th step. Here is a description of each state, and the name I call them.

1. Misery or Survival

        You are completely unhappy right now –

2. Comfort of Current Reality.

        You are happy, content, but you have no vision. ‘Let’s all hang out in Bliss.’ –

3. Stress and Anxiety

        You have great dream and visions, but unhappy because they are not there yet –

4. Flow

        When you are happy now, you have a vision and are happy with the journey –

While I was working my process, I had gotten lost in the Stress and Anxiety State of Mind. And sometimes that’s just natural. I was looking at a core pattern that I want to transform. This pattern has deep roots, has operated for my lifetime, and had a very dark piece that came into being to protect an innocent child.

This journey into Stress and Anxiety was an intentional act of courage to look at a core wound I have so that I can transmute this pattern and restore my connection with “Who I really Am.” I just got bogged down in the survival vibrations along the way.

Two Ingredients to Flow
So what are the two ingredients to restore myself to Flow? According to Vishen I need to:

    Be happy now (before I reach my dream).
    Have the vision of where I am headed.

So happiness is part of the journey not the destination. This balancing of happiness right in this moment, while aspiring for something we want or are dreaming about is something Esther Hicks calls The Gap in the Law of Attraction work.

Vishen is saying “Get rid of Stress and Anxiety while you are on the journey.” And that my friends are what we are called to do right now in these times. It is not always easy, but it is incredibly fulfilling. See Journeying Through the Gap.

Ways to Stay Happy
We need to put systems in place to help us be happy along the way. Here is Vishen’s list of practices to keep ourselves happy. I link to past blog entries that are my input on these practices.

1. Meditation.

Meditate into a New State of Being
Meditate. Why?

2. Guided Visualization –

Imagination and the Law of Success
Prosperity Secret of 17 Seconds.

3. Intention Setting. Esther Hicks calls this process Segment Intending. You can set an intention for this moment, this day, this year, or this particular segment of time – like when you pick up a phone call.

Setting Daily Intention
Prosperity Secrets to Create Your Day

4. Inspirational Readings or videos:

Inspirational Practices
Personalized Inspirational Quotes
Flow or Not to Flow, That is the Question

6. Gratitude

Gratitude Inspirational Quotes
Recognize Signs the Universe Delivers

Remembering and Forgetting
So now I am reminded that I just went down the emotional scale temporarily (even if part of it was on purpose), got lost in a survival state of mind. I ‘m reminded of the practices that I can take to restore my equilibrium. Here are some resources

Survival Thinking
Raise your Vibration and Go Up the Emotional Scale
Survival and Contracting
Dreams and Survival Thinking

Vision
Dare to Dream
Vision and the Law of Success

State
Understanding Your State
Shift Your State
Meditate to a New State
Journeying through the Gap

Happiness
Law of Success Strategies
The Secret to Optimism, Success, Positive Attitude, and Being Happy

Flow
To Flow or Not to Flow, That is the Question
Flowing or Bumping

Last month I worked on my Vision Board for 2015. So I am very clear about my vision this year. I just had forgotten to be happy along the way (even though it is on my Vision Board). I’m reminding myself about ways to go back to being happy. Counting my blessing always makes me feel better.

This journey of living and becoming more conscious is a constant growing and then rebalancing process and sometimes we forget along the way. It’s just natural. And now that I’ve finished this essay, I realize that I knew all this all the time – just as you do too. We’re just human beings doing the best we can. We are constantly Remembering and Forgetting.

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“The Secret To Optimism, Success, Positive Attitude and Being Happy”

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

The Secret to Optimism is You and Your Choice.

After years of reading and research, prayer and masterminding, owning businesses and working for someone else, I came to the conclusion that to really become extravagantly successful, I needed to learn to think differently; the secret to being happy, having optimism, and being successful.

Ask and It Is Given began another series of deep changes in my life. It was time, I thought. What did I have to lose? Might as well try thinking with optimism. A positive attitude and being happy would be the worst result. So I gave myself a time frame of one month, and then one year to try thinking with optimism and a positive attitude. Wonders! I became a happy person overnight. After constantly being accused of only looking at the hole instead of the dough-nut, this was simply a marvelous way to live. I had stumbled upon the Secret of Optimism. I only had to choose what I thought.

    Setting Intent is the first step in the secret of optimism and creating a happy, successful life with positive attitude.

    Deliberation about the Intent is also a part of the steps in the secret of optimism; becoming prosperous successful and happy. In this case I had deliberated for years of the pros and cons of developing the practice of thinking different. Being wealthy, successful, and deliriously happy attracted me. I could really commit to this process of thinking with optimism to create a positive attitude.

    Commitment to that Intent is the third step in the secret of optimism and creating a positive attitude and a happy successful life.


    Becoming Aware
    of my thoughts (Recognize them) is the next logical step in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude, and happiness. Years of conscious building had helped. It is a little awkward and painful to watch one’s thoughts each minute and each hour. So much habit. So much focus on the negative. Uggh.

    Acceptance of what you think without judgment is an imperative part in the in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy. I developed ways to say, “Oh yes, there’s my cynic (judge) raising its head again. Well of course it would feel that way.”

    Have a Happy Thought Stockpile. Choose a couple of events, dreams or wishes that you can think about in detail that make you feel good. When you are thinking a stream of negative thoughts, you just can’t stop thinking those same thoughts, so you must change your focus to something pleasant. A list of happy thoughts is a magical tool in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

    Shift your attention to something that fills you with joy and happiness; the next stage in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy. I would practice on my way to work by looking at the world around me and finding something to be amazed at. Later I practiced imagining and detailing my favorite retirement dream of painting and writing. I always felt better. Finding things to be grateful for, was another way.

    Choose the positive thought. The mind can be tricky. You can’t stop thinking negatively, worrying, or being in fear. But you can choose to turn your focus to something else. When you successfully shift your focus, make sure you appreciate yourself (later) for having chosen well. Appreciation of your success will serve in implementing the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

    Savor the happy well being that comes from practicing the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy. I didn’t have much practice in savoring. It is so delicious to savor. It’s like being the dog riding with his head out the car window.


    Repeat the Process time and again
    . Whenever you find yourself thinking another negative thought, reach for a better feeling thought from your Happy Stockpile. Repeating is a necessary tool in the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.


    Practice this process for 30 days
    and your will have made a habit of using the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

Here is more information about How to Become an Optimist.

Tomorrow, we will look at some specific thoughts to interrupt so you can better use the secret of optimism, success, positive attitude and being happy.

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ClickBank Nigeria Cash and How to Make Money Online  Thrive Global

If you need to make some cash, here is a quick and easy way to make some money. You can make money with ClickBank Nigeria according to Prosper Noah.



These 3 people have cracked the code to making major profits while working fewer hours per week. Here's how they did it.  Business Insider

Some people have said they've been able to make thousands of dollars by working a few hours per week instead of working a more standard salaried job.



How To Create A Revenue-Generating To-Do List  Forbes

Running your own business is tough. You aren't just doing the core work, you're also doing the accounting, HR, Sales, *Content* Creation, Website Management, ...



Why Online Gaming is Becoming a Vibrant Way to Make Money Online  GameIndustry.com

Gaming has always been a way people refresh their brains from stressful jobs. Some people game as a virtual way to live the life style they always dreamed of.



'Shazam!' director hopes 'Captain Marvel' makes “all the money” and shuts up trolls  Batman-News

Shazam! and Captain Marvel are uniquely linked in the pantheon of superhero-based movies. The title character of Shazam! went by the name “Captain Marvel” ...



Building an Investment Portfolio with ETFs Just Got Even Cheaper. Here's How to Do It  MONEY

As exchange-traded funds gain more and more fans, brokerage firms are making it cheaper and easier for investors to use them as the main building blocks of a ...



Judge bars Roger Stone from speaking about criminal case  The Washington Post

A federal judge on Thursday ordered that longtime Republican operative and Trump confidant Roger Stone may not speak publicly about the investigation or ...



'Fortnite' is not the only problem that major video game firms are facing, analysts say  CNBC

Analysts who spoke to CNBC mostly said the issues faced by the gaming heavyweights go beyond competition from the hugely popular Fortnite.



How to Make Money Online: 25 Examples and Ideas  TheStreet.com

Even if you are stuck at home (or unable to travel for work), there are countless ways to make money online. TheStreet explores ways to make some cash on the ...



12 Ways You Can Absolutely Make Money Online  Forbes Now

For many people, making money online would be an absolute dream come true. If they could find a way to make money with a website or some other online ...



California's governor wants to pay residents a data dividend  Marketplace APM

How much is your data worth, and should tech companies compensate you for it?



Laura Loomer protested her permanent ban at Twitter NYC (again)  The Verge

It was a cold and overcast Wednesday in New York when Laura Loomer returned to Twitter's New York City headquarters to protest. Last November, the right ...



"It's just impossible": Devs explain why big online games always seem to break at launch  GamesRadar

Between the fragmented launch of Anthem, the surprise launch of Apex Legends, and the upcoming launch of The Division 2, early 2019 is stacked with big ...



How to Make Money Online for beginners  TWCN Tech News

Here are some practical ways to make money online for free, instantly, fast & without paying anything or investment. This post for beginners lists all the ways to ...



3 Online Business Owners Share the Worst Ways to Make Money Online  Student Loan Hero

Making money online is possible, but many money-making opportunities are a waste of time. In this article, three online business owners share their worst ...



101 Ways To Make More Money  Forbes

As the gig economy grows, so do opportunities for motivated people to make extra money. Here are 101 simple, actionable ways to explore. Whatever your ...



The funds that fuel our online ISA  Coutts

With the cut-off date to use your 2018/19 ISA allowance fast approaching, we look at the investments behind the stocks and shares ISA available through our ...



10 Ways to Make Money Online You May Not Have Thought Of  Entrepreneur

The internet was made for profit, not just just memes and political discourse.



A Quiet War Rages Over Who Can Make Money Online  WIRED

Over the past year, two popular forums for men who identify as involuntary celibates, or incels, have been banned by Reddit and a domain registrar in response ...



5 Full-Time Jobs You Can Do to Make Money Online or From Home  Entrepreneur

We might not be multi-platinum hip-hop recording artists, but some of us can relate to Drake when he said, “I only love my bed and my mama, I'm sorry.” As much ...



YouTube's Latest Child Exploitation Controversy Has Kick-Started A War Over How To Fix The Platform  BuzzFeed News

The company said this week that YouTubers could lose monetization for not just the *content* of their videos, but what's posted in their comment sections as well.



John Legend on Kanye West, Making Political Music and Morality in Art  New York Times

In January, John Legend drew widespread praise as the most prominent musician to speak out against R. Kelly's decades of sexual-assault allegations in ...



"Threats" over controversial field trip put Rock Hill school on lockdown  FOX 46 Charlotte

ROCK HILL, S.C. (FOX 46 CHARLOTTE) - Ebenezer Avenue Elementary School in Rock Hill was placed on lockdown for around an hour Friday after the school ...



Everybody Makes Podcasts. Can Anyone Make Them Profitable?  BloombergQuint

(Bloomberg Businessweek) -- About a decade ago, Hank and John Green, fraternal YouTube stars, founded VidCon, an annual convention in Anaheim, Calif., ...



Red Dead Online money making - how to make money in Red Dead's multiplayer  Eurogamer.net

Red Dead Online money works a little differently to in standard single-player, or even its GTA Online counterpart. Instead of one type of cash, there a…



Simple Ways To Make Money Online  LA Canyon News

UNITED STATES—The digital era has changes our lives in many different ways. We have changed the way in which we shop, enjoy entertainment, work, ...



25 Easy Ways to Make Money With Your Phone  Student Loan Hero

Are you ready to make more money using your phone? Here are 25 ways your smartphone can help you take your earning power to the next level.



Backpack Kid Sues Fortnite For Stealing 'The Floss' Dance  NPR

A wannabe rapper named Backpack Kid is suing game maker of Fortnite for stealing a dance he claims he created called The Floss.



How to earn money online in Nigeria in 2019  Legit.ng

Legit.ng News ☆ Read to find out how to ☝ MAKE MONEY ONLINE ☝ in Nigeria! What are the best ways to earn money on the Internet without prior investments ...



Why Search Engine Optimization Is the Key to Making Money Online  Entrepreneur

There are all sorts of ways to make money from a blog or website. You could sell ads, write sponsored *content* or work with *content* partners. You could create an ...



20 best ways to make money online  Komando

The good news these days is that you can make money if you have an internet connection! There's no secret trick to making money either, other than using ...



How to make money fast in Red Dead Online  GamesRadar

Seek your fortune in the multiplayer Old West by finding out how to make money fast in Red Dead Online.



Want to Start Earning Money Online? Here Are 13 Ways You Can Get Started  Influencive

Everybody knows at this point that a standard salary isn't enough to thrive anymore. You, like most employees, are getting paid less and less — yet expenses ...



Red Dead Online guide: How to make easy money fast  Polygon

Here's a guide to making tons of money fast in the first couple hours of playing Red Dead Redemption 2's online component.



7 Ways to Make Money Online and With Free Apps in 2018  U.S. News & World Report

From participating in focus groups to teaching English online to selling comic books, collecting extra money online is a cinch with the right websites and apps.



3 Ways to Make Money Online From Your Blog or Website  New Haven Register

Want to start a blog? Here are three proven ways to make money from it.



It Started With a Jolt: How New York Became a Tech Town  The New York Times

Amazon may not call it home. But the city, by design and because of its allure, is increasingly a magnet for coders and companies.



The blog China turned to for "toxic chicken soup for the soul" has shut down  Quartz

Mimeng, seen by many as the queen of personal-development clickbait on the WeChat app, this week shut down her hugely popular four-year-old ...



13 easy, legitimate ways to make extra money this month — that you probably haven't considered yet  Business Insider

The Insider Picks team writes about stuff we think you'll like. Business Insider has affiliate partnerships, so we get a share of the revenue from your purchase.*.



Red Dead Online: Fastest Money / Gold Making Method to Date  RockstarINTEL

You've probably seen clickbait like this all over YouTube, Twitter, etc. and we don't usually do money making guides but considering the prices of some of the ...



Five ways to make money online working from home  The South African

We've picked a list of ways which will help you to make money working from home. You will find options for both additional earnings and main sources of income ...



Refer.ng 2019 Millionaire Assurance - Make money online in 2019 easily from home  Legit.ng

Legit.ng News ☆ If you are tired of doing the same boring job for the same low pay, there is a new solution that you can use to get money much faster. Have you ...



25 legit ways to make money online as an undergraduate  Pulse Nigeria

Are you thinking about how to make money as a student? See 25 ways you can make money both online and offline.



7 Ways To Make Money Online And Offline  BCW

In today's materialistic world, the increasing costs, as well as lack of job opportunities, force individuals and students alike to look for creative ways to make ...



How to make quick money online in Nigeria  Legit.ng

Legit.ng News ☆ If you want to know how to ✌ MAKE QUICK MONEY ✌ online in Nigeria, this article is simply for you. Read and learn some of the fastest and ...



7 Realistic Ways to Make Money Online  Entrepreneur

The internet offers many opportunities to generate passive income sufficient for you to quit the rat race.



Making Money Online: When Is It Smart To Buy An Existing E-Commerce Site?  Forbes Now

Make money online! How many times have you seen those words on an email subject line or emblazoned across a piece of clickbait? I don't think I need to tell ...



GTA Online: How To Make Money Fast  GamesRadar

If you're looking for ways to make money fast in GTA Online, then you've come to the right place. In the years since GTA Online first launched there have been ...



Sleaford Mods on beefing with IDLES, hating The Brit Awards, loving Drake and the sheer joy of making cakes  NME.com

Nottingham electropunk duo Sleaford Mods, made up of ranting frontman Jason Williamson and producer Andrew Fearn, once released a track with the lyrics: ...



Why You Don't Actually Need Money to Make Money  Entrepreneur

"It takes money to make money." It's a very frustrating phrase. Where am I supposed to get the money I need to make the money I need? Is there some sort of ...



How To Make Money From Home, Because There Are So Many Easy Ways To Boost Your Budget  Bustle

Hey it's 2019. It's January 2019. I could go through the umpteen reasons why you and I are both broke or we could look at sorting that out instead. Hell yeah ...



How to Make Money on YouTube | Family Finance  U.S News & World Report Money

It takes a lot of passion and a lot of luck to make posting to YouTube into a viable career.



15 Ways to Make Money Online in Kenya 2018  Kenyans.co.ke

All you need is internet access and your phone or a computer to take these jobs to earn extra money from your usual hustles which is...



30 Ways to Make Money in College in 2018  TheStreet.com

While college may be a time for Ramen noodles and sleep deprivation, it can also be a time of great money-making opportunities. But, how do you make money ...



5 modern ways to earn money online  Augusta Free Press

In today's modern world, the internet has become an essential part of everyone's life, and that has created many unique opportunities to earn money.



Best Survey Sites to Make Money Online  The Frisky

Online money making is the newest trend in the market for professionals who are looking to earn something more than their usual income. The most viable way ...



How to make money online from the comfort of your own​ home  iNews

For many reasons, working in an office or in the field may not fit your circumstances. Making money online could therefore be a lucrative way to earn a living.



Sites to make money online Kenya  Tuko.co.ke

Tuko.co.ke News ☛ If you wish to ☆MAKE MONEY ONLINE KENYA☆ has one of the best environments for such a desire. Not to mention, most of the sites are ...



5 ways to make money online as a student  Pulse Nigeria

Are you thinking about how to make money as a student? Here's how you can make money online.



Can you make money selling your data?  BBC News

Tech giants make billions from our data – why can't we do the same? Sam Harrison tries out companies which pay for personal information, with varying results.



Red Dead Online: The best and fastest ways to make money  GameCrate

The Red Dead Online beta has been kicking off in a big way, but just like in previous Rockstar games the economy at launch is undeniably a bit difficult to work ...



Red Dead Online: How to make money in RDR2 Online as fans discover new beta glitch  Express

RED Dead Online is out now, and it poses a new challenge for fans on PS4 and Xbox One, so one of the big questions is how to make money in RDR2 Online, ...



12 easy ways to make money in 2019 – Which? News  Which?

Whether you're already dreaming of a summer holiday or want to tackle your Christmas over-spending, now is a great time to start making some extra money.



21 Legit Ways To Make Money Online  Forbes Now

Technology's ever-pervading permeation into every last fiber and morsel of society has caused a dramatic upheaval in the way we live, work and entertain ...



To Make Money Online Do These 3 Things First  Entrepreneur

Everyone wants to make money online. It's the proverbial dream. But, is this dream an achievable reality for most people who are just starting out on the web?



Frequent flyer rewards guide for Frontier Airlines  Bankrate.com

Frontier Airlines is breaking new ground with its program offering free domestic flights for children ages 14 and under flying with a paying adult.



4 ways to make money online without a job  Pulse.com.gh

Check out online opportunities to make money at home.



5 things you should know if you want to make money online  Pulse Nigeria

Examples of the best freelance marketplaces include Up work; Guru; Freelancer; Fiverr; Peopleperhour; Toptal; iWriter; and Simplyhired.



Four ways to make quick money online  Economic Times

The internet also provides you several opportunities to make some quick money from the leisure of your home. Here are some ideas to get you started.



32 Proven Ways to Make Money Fast  Entrepreneur

In a bind? Need some fast cash? We're talking here about small bursts of capital, not millions of dollars -- enough to satisfy your monthly obligations or get that ...



How to Make Money from a Website - 2019  TechCo

Find out how to make money from a website . Should you have adverts, sponsored *content* or run an online store?



You Don't Need to Be on YouTube to Make Money With Video Content  Entrepreneur

With changes to YouTube's Partner Program, many small *content* creators are looking elsewhere.



'Red Dead Online': How To Make Money Fast and Easily  Comicbook.com

Players are loving virtually everything about Red Dead Online so far, except for its economy. Basically, as it stands, you either need to play an INSANE amount ...



[Money Monday] 5 ways to make money online  Face2Face Africa

The hope of many is to be free from the daily 9 to 5 jobs to engage in other activities like travelling, spending time with the family or doing other side jobs.



Red Dead Redemption 2 Online Fast Money Making Trick  Junkee

Red Dead Online, Red Dead Redemption 2's multiplayer mode, currently makes it difficult to earn money. Here's the quickest way we've found to get some cash.



GTA 5 Online Money - How to Make Money FAST solo or in a crew | Daily Star  Daily Star

GTA 5 Online offers many ways to make money fast. Here we reveal some of the ways you can get rich on the multiplayer game.



This furloughed worker found a unique way to make $2,000 a month during the shutdown  MarketWatch

More than 800000 federal workers have already missed their first paychecks of the year while on furlough.



How to Make Money in Stocks (the Smart Way)  NerdWallet

The stock market's average return is a cool 10% annually — better than in a bank account or bonds. Here's how to make money in stocks.



How To Travel The World And Make Money  Forbes

These days it might seem like everyone wants to travel the world. But unless you are independently wealthy, who has vacation time to spend months ...



Legit ways to make money online  The New Times

Technology's ever-pervading permeation into every last fibre and morsel of society has caused a dramatic upheaval in the way we live, work and entertain ...



The 5 Most Reliable Ways to Make Money Online  Entrepreneur

In 1994, the internet went mainstream. This is the year the first AOL discs came out to let people “dial up” to the internet. They were everywhere. You could get ...



Save Your Money -- Red Dead Online's Gold Bars Aren't Worth Buying  Forbes

Now you can buy Gold Bars with real money in 'Red Dead Online' but I'm not sure why you'd bother.



25 Easy Ways To Get Money And Rare Weapons In Red Dead Redemption 2 Online  TheGamer

Red Dead Redemption 2 pro players know the easiest (and best) ways to get money in the game.



30 Ways to Make Easy Money in an Hour (or Less!)  Reader's Digest

Who couldn't use an easy way to make cash quickly? These options will enable you to grab some green quickly!



How to make money quickly  Zululand Observer

MOST individuals would love to make as much money as possible while doing the least amount of work, so that they can sit back and enjoy what life has to offer, ...



Apps to make money online Kenya  Tuko.co.ke

Well designed apps have made it easier for everyone to make money online Kenya without leaving the comfort of their homes. And to be honest, most of us ...



How to make money online with a sports blog  Augusta Free Press

Do you have any passion for blogging along with sports? If then, opening a sports blog will be the perfect money-making task for you.



27 Best Money Making Apps 2019 - Apps That Make You Money  WomansDay.com

If you're looking for a side gig without expending much time or effort, we've got great news: You can make money right from your phone by downloading these ...



How to make money online with WhatsApp: Check top tricks and step by step guide  The Financial Express

Although WhatsApp itself doesn't allow ads or commercial transactions, still there are plenty of ways to take advantage of its unique format and earn money.



11 best innovative ways to make money online, and avoid the Internet job scams  USA TODAY

“Online work” used to mean “money grabbing scam.” You might find a job selling things online for a commission or writing blogs for money, but these rarely ...



Eight of the best ways to make money online  This is Money

Instead of spending hours on end browsing the internet or checking for updates online, what if you could use that time online to make yourself richer.



So, How Does Rockstar Actually Fix Red Dead Online's Economy?  Forbes

After a tidal wave of fan feedback about how Red Dead Online's economy is terrible, Rockstar said that they were absorbing all the feedback and would be ...



Ever thought of making money online? Get started with these 5 businesses  Pulse Nigeria

Here are five easy ways you can start making money online from the comfort of your own.



How Much Do YouTubers Make? Revenue Streams and Top Performers  TheStreet

YouTube can be a path to riches, if you do the video thing right. Learn about different ways to make money and check out how much the top earners make on the ...



How to make money online without paying anything  Tuko.co.ke

How to make extra money online without paying anything might sound like fraud for many people once they hear that statement. The likelihood of getting ...



How To Use Online Courses To Generate A 6-Figure Passive Income  Forbes

Paul Thomson, an entrepreneur who works with six, seven, and even eight-figure business owners to create and sell online courses, shares insights on how to ...


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